Soulmates&Swingers #Podcast Episode 18: 2021 was wild part 2

0:08 Podcast that you didn't know you needed. This is The Swinging soulmates podcast with your host Mondo and sativa. Please relax unwind and come play with us and our guest co-host as we can delay. Share our personal experiences and erotic, escapades and lifestyle. Motivated by Passion and purpose. Our goal is to create a community that allows themselves to be educated and entertained through the tales of the screening soul. Mate mom doin sativa are not medical professionals. Yet we are a happily married.

0:47 Couple of 90 years and in the Elvis 410. We have a deep unwavering commitment to our marriage and to holding a space in normalizing and redefining the concept of relationship. Ships and monogamy The Swinging. Soulmates strives to be a resource and inspiration to others. So subscribe, put a reoccurring, play date on your calendar and come along with us as we journey deep into our minds assuming some weeks. That's where I put that into more cuz I was that I felt like that, that could go a little bit longer, that's just me because maybe I so what I do want to talk about since we of course, you know, music is so important to us.

1:44 I do want to go ahead and go on to, let's do the seduction songs of 2021. Then what kind of clothes out with 20 21 year review? As provided by porn hub, which is a great way to end. Our wrap everything up as far as what is hot, what you know what a grand folks doing behind closed doors? What are the trends? What are we going to be looking to going into the new year? But first you want to go ahead and set the stage. Set the stage with some really, really good music. And this is a list. I mean, everything's on YouTube.

2:20 Everything's on Google, everything's on Spotify. I mean really, I don't know what we would do without those platforms, but they made it very easy for us to come up with a list to share with you guys that are the top seduction songs of 2021. And how about we go over? The first five. Is that good Lord? Yep. Just give me. One quick moment here.

2:47 You can absolutely go over the first box.

2:52 All right, here we go. Don't know if I agree.

3:11 I'm just going over the list. It's not a whole lot that I think that would have made it to our playlist, but that doesn't say that much either. So. So let's see what we got number. We said the first first fiberglass tune is what we got. Yeah, there's this pick some up there that we actually are all. Start at the bottom and work my way up here. Never her Ariana Grande safety. Net featuring. Ty Dollar Sign who has not come out. Good music recently, Yeah, well wants to hear that Teyana. Taylor concrete?

3:46 Nope. depending what you're saying, but the on Impaler does that, you know, You know, she is old 42 South CP time. See you later. Not having what we can see what she says and say that. Wasn't it. That was wonderful. That I don't get to skip. I don't know why we can't drink it away. That's it away. Yeah, I mean, I have female song again. How's the tips there, Montgomery? Tony. But Africa. North African one. Boom. Right. Are you serious? That's what, that's what.

4:47 I don't get that from the song. I don't look at them out yourself. Yeah I'm not the only songs for chicks. Maybe it sounds like it'd be a good song to dance to. So her H ER shout out to the Bay. I don't know the song though. Damage of see here, Tyler Shaw, Kinks weeks Jacquees are some will be heavy. Sure. If you say so Jacquees featuring mulatto freaky as me, that's why he won so far. Even sounds. Like it would be something Justin Bieber know, no better. Ariana Grande Oregon. Is like six songs on here?

5:29 Yeah, I don't know who made this this playlist. I don't agree with you at all. Bad music, Chloe and Haley. Jeff Burnett, Justin Bieber again. Don Tolliver those are cat Billy eyeless. Let's see the number 10 realistic. Number 9. Are we Linux pressure number eight, Swedish House. Mafia moth to a flame. Number seven, my topic Community number 6. Chloe number 5 of this one was good Norm, on E, Wild Side the cardi B. That was a good one. Number four Dozer cabin. The weekend didn't remember. Number three was Rick, Ross, featuring Jazmine, Sullivan, 21, Savage don't remember it.

6:21 Number two, Bruno Mars. That's the new one that's out right now. Leave the door open, right? Newer. Yeah. That's not that yeah that's it. I think the other one is better than that one. But yeah, thatthat sounds good. And the number one is need to know by Dozier cut which I can't say that even hurt. That's all cats eyes that is. I don't know who made that. So I'm gonna go ahead and take back my thank you for making that because that was not good. Look up camera. It's old but still a great knocker.

6:53 I mean, Kelly Price, you know, me goes great song, Little Wayne

7:04 F f, mm-hmm. I'm good. I'm good as what I think the name of his beer. I'm good. I'm good. But there's, there's a lot better songs in the ones they were on this Village. But hey, that's just my humble opinion. I didn't like it. You don't like it. It's that. Yeah. When I first went on, I was like, oh okay. I think it's do that. But no, I live, it was not good. Yeah, you guys there. I mean, music overall. You definitely have to kind of way through a lot of bullshit that's out there, you know, take it back, take him back to music that to loved, take it back to little guy, you know.

7:48 Um, you know that. Oh my God. So I start to look up another one. Another playlist. And it same, it has a grande has. Yes. As Jeremiah has does every on On it. But I, that's how.

8:07 I don't know if this person, this person must be a child. It must be. It must be a charmer. Susie probably will like his are making most of the stuff. Anyway, respectfully. Well, you know, I'm a good athlete. Take it back. So future, lowlife is on there. I agree, baby. Okay. So there's a couple knock, mr. Drake. Oh my fuck, I don't know if that really would be a song of the bedroom but all right the pending on what you know what? Movies done Darwin, Slide the remix to her. Oh, Pop smoke Winery.

8:42 It's brown. Okay, so here's a little bit better, a little better than a. Oh, go super buff links in the description, then you ought to check it out. Don't do the first one. Maybe that'll be our poll, which list was better. Yeah, it may well have come up with our own you guys. We can kind of, you know, come up with one together, songs of 2021. That, you know, you get down and dirty too. So I'll make a wet spot to before we went on to the Insight one, we were talking about interactive porn before and one of the links that you guys will have down in the doobly-doo, be the best interactive porn sites to build the action.

9:28 So there's two different types of interaction. I bet that it falls under the interactive. One is when you are using Tesla total Dominic yes there you go. When you are using things like one of our sponsors, a Levant or oh my bod or for the guys, you know, you're using a sleeve. Bleep. And if you're not familiar, you can use these items and not be anywhere near each other. I mean, literally be on the other side of the planet and you are going to be able to bill the other person. So either father move in, you could have it play to a playlist multiple playlists.

10:17 You have lots of options? Yes, yes, yes. And if you go to count with us, you're controlling their toys, they actually have it on. Yeah. So you Can do that while you are virtual reality. So that way you actually build even closer to the person, you know, nice little POV and then you are now able to do something that is clearly for Our Generation. It is definitely a interactive video where it's more of create your own Choose Your Own Adventure. Which I believe that her being, I, maybe, you know, elevated and maybe not sober on some other alcohol, many years ago, we were like, you know what, you don't punch me.

11:01 Like, you should be able to choose a person. The guy how he looked, he should be able to cut him out. You should be able to go into this scene. We pretty much set the screws ago, so know I was here. Yeah, that was here. Porn hub. Has they've had a a bunch of movies but basically what we figured out is that they've are taking movies that already completed and making them where they can be interactive not bad. A lot more can be done, I'm excited to either create some of our own or to see with technology just how you know how far it goes.

11:38 I mean AI is already a huge thing so I can imagine you know, maybe your interactive video being you know, You terrorized or synced up with maybe a a sex though or you know, maybe you guys will be able be able to log on with somebody else and maybe like a webcam girl or something. And you guys are all be, you know, able to have like, a little threesome, who knows so many possibilities, but I do enjoy it. I do think that it is definitely needed for us to move forward. You know, if adult entertainment is still Oh, going to be a thing and still allow consenting adults.

12:23 You know, to do what they love to do, what they're passionate about. What this little entertainment

12:32 allows you to explore your imagination without necessarily violating people's. At the same time, you can be yourself in the privacy of your own home and not have to feel embarrassed or or something like that, especially for people who might be embarrassed. Yeah, and unfortunately, you know, we know there's a lot of people out in the world that are lonely and this is a way, you know, silicone dolls. And and, and I want to come sex. All that fun dolls will call them. They become huge, they become so much more relevant and slowly more acceptable and the past five years or so.

13:12 And they've been around for very long time. But I would say, even in the past to the three years they've, you know they've just grown Own in, you know, in acceptance, and in popularity especially because a lot of the suppliers they will work with you on payments. Um and I think if you do want a purpose at all, you think you are pretty much prepared for the investment. But yeah we we you know, we have to part of, you know what this, what our society needs is definitely being a little bit more communal and a little bit more understanding about the different walks of life.

13:49 So Chris may definitely be, I don't want to say a solution but something that can provide some much-needed companionship to somebody out there. Yeah, and I know that as their part-time web camera, I recommend to my fans and my viewers that they purchase, you know, a an item and that we can really have some fun together, especially because a lot of them always say, they wish they could do. Tell me or touch me or something like that. So any webcam models out there. Any aspiring webcam models anybody that's looking to get into the adult industry and you know, expand their revenue and their stream of income.

14:33 That's definitely an investment that you would want to make within yourself and in your career. I agree. Yes. So we have a yeah, we went through. I'm very upset in that playlist. Very upset because of the playlist. Yeah, the first one was not good. Yeah. That's that second one. I found this but much better. Why are you hearing review for Spotify or the your interview for a are playlist for coming? Would be way better. Oh yeah. That's such to YouTube. Sure. That probably I hear ya always said, mr. Cho, sure that.

15:14 So, we have one final topic for you guys tonight. And I think this really kind of just sums everything up and put a little bow on what's hot for 2021 in the world of sex. So if any of you guys, I don't know if you've seen But every single year PornHub puts out a actually a ton of insight but a usually Starts with been putting out there, their map of the country and each state. You know, they tell what they're hiding, they like to nice. A nerve country and all that. Yeah, so that is see the demographics.

15:58 With, I got searches up.

16:04 Such as I really want, I want to find the thing though, so the tops will tablecloth demographics. Here we go. So once again, also, They give you as demographics, as well as. Location demographics.

16:39 So, the term search that most most often in each state, Are as follows. So we'll go ahead and start off with the Vietnam, the Left Coast, the best coast and start off with Callie. So, here in Cali, and I was surprised about this Asian As the most searched explains why we get so many random, I mean, the featured for porno right now, of course, is all Asian and and and as Japanese Asian where they blur out the privates, and we're in America, I don't watch it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Tell me little orthocare, are, you know, something else that's doing some stuff.

17:21 So then in Hawaii, it's morning, sex. And we organize its Joy, which is jerk-off instruction in Washington. It's double penetration, hmm? It's interesting in Nevada strip with the strippers. What's twerking in know what? State is that? Oh my God. That is Nevada. Yeah, my bad. So then, that's Arizona. Yeah, that's Arizona Arizona, my brother's Utah. Arizona strip has Arizona, yeah, Utah's, Mormon, Florida, BBC, Georgia, ebony. This is funny to me. Thanks. I'm a big thick Latina. Isn't that where they were going to put the a wall and all that good stuff?

18:10 Tennessee interracial. Yeah. Let's see, I'm surprised Florida's bbc2. That's that's interesting. There's one of top this swallow fisting. Hot wife. And Massachusetts, second a swinger New Hampshire, anal, cream, pie. And Colorado. Yeah. Trimming in Vermont, huh? South Dakota. So obviously, swinger and Connecticut, not really surprised. There any hoses something in the very middle there next to the Louisiana in Delaware. Really hmm. Divorced. And like Mississippi or something like that. Looks like dirty talk in Atlanta penis pump.

18:52 You know, this shows me, I have no idea what states are, if I just look at the shape of them, I know, California, I know, Mississippi and Dad, Arizona, New Mexico, Texas, Oklahoma, Louisiana Alabama, Georgia Florida. And then after that, we're screwed. Yeah, I would like you guys to look. Yeah and and see if you know as well utano. Yeah. That's that's pretty interesting. Yeah, Colorado's huge boobs. Houma, natural tits.

19:27 Hawaii morning. Sex know, Alaska is penis. Pump Alaska's morning sex. Why is that mr. White Kansas likes a search for pantyhose. South Dakota like sex doll. So we know where those are going the top countries on PornHub, United States, the United Kingdom and Japan could support the Sierra. I thought this was interesting top search. For the year. Number one, was the hint. I, which is the cartoon or those chicks, It Roll their eyes in the back and you don't like it. Then number two, number two was

20:13 Group sex, which is something. We looked up number five was swapping, which is something we looked up. And that's, I think that at the time spent per visit is interesting. The average time has decreased by 23 seconds and the average time spent is 9 minutes and 44 seconds. It's not taking us very long to finish her. Is it? It's real or so Wyoming spends the most time at 11 minutes and three seconds, search for stars lined. The roads, not even more stunning, more about a danger, Very talented me and Mac, ovas like five Angela, White six.

20:56 Now, this one, I don't get it. She's one, two, three, four and seven Mia Khalifa. I don't either, but she went down 10. So we did a whole, you know, free Brittany if we don't free Mia Khalifa, but that girl, that six months of that woman that six months and they put her shit up, like she is putting out new content every day, but no, no. And she's really trying to separate herself. It was a timer life and they are still. I think I'm exploiting her and I know that you know she probably didn't have the best of contracts but heís Mondale have a little hard she's definitely not trying to you know live by that she's not a Tila Tequila you know trying to keep some Fame off of You know, that time that she had.

21:43 I mean literally she did six months and I mean she did, you know, she worked but that that time be in the past, I felt whenever I see it, I'm just like, why? Like, yeah, some other ones we watch Skylar box Alexis Texas Adriana chechik this is Sarah J. Japanese lesbian Ebony, and then milk. Huh.

22:13 Doesn't seem like that when we're looking for shit. I know that top gaining categories. Big ass has moved up three hundred and fourteen percent bisexual. Male terms searched, anti-lesbian Mill, Bethany top for the view that the categories view. The longest mature at 14 minutes, 58 seconds. I've got my mission solo, female respectfully, and actually a lot of these are down and majority of these. Are down. As far as the time scissoring is said to be the shortest.

22:49 For every time to watch porn. Yeah. 10 p.m. or 9:00 9:00 p.m. to 2:00, 3:00 a.m. and then also 1 p.m. to 6 p.m.

23:04 That makes sense about Cammy, as well, most use category by gender. Women's favorite, lesbian Japanese, I don't know, milk threesome, mature or males, Japanese Mill, Mature Ebony, and tie a little So the world's most viewed categories, Canada is lesbian America is ebony. South America is hentai Africa, is ebony.

23:41 Australia's lesbian India is Indian.

23:48 Japan is Japanese osis, the China's anal, and then rushes and tie sought out to Sarah J and Alexis Texas. There's, you know, the hanging out in there are the are on the most-searched list as well. Strange thing I know Daddy, you know, we definitely did a lot of Sarah. J watching over the past. Past couple years home to film time out of the last few months. Thanks to her damn assistant. So there's so much more that we can actually go over. And I think that we're going to kind of fit this in with some of the other topics that we have and we could keep going back to this, probably all.

24:34 Yeah, it's the web. So this is talking about different parts.

24:42 This dust characters but I know we've tried to look up parodies before, Harley Quinn number one, search movie character. That makes sense. There's a lot of Batman and Joker parodies make sense. I mean, I don't, yeah, I don't think we've seen too many others other than like TV show once and they put out that 70 Show Cosby Cosby Elder Darude Souls trash maybe children. As black of movies, but they're not that good. They did Batman or don't talk about Batman. They did. X-Men has been a couple that are like really W upon the other ones.

25:24 Just like, oh, gris-gris. That was it, okay? Like, we actually were like, okay, let's go and find all of the movie, not just bits and pieces. But yeah. So guys, we can like I said, we could continue talking and this could be a topic that goes on all night, but we're gonna go ahead. And make sure that we saved some good stuff for the new year. So we'll go ahead and review some of these things. Talk about, you know, going into the new year maybe these are some of the things that you need to review or be on the lookout or and add some new things as they come along in the next week or two.

26:01 Um, it definitely want to give a shout-out to the consecrate her. I already gave a shot out to um, that's gonna happen tomorrow. You didn't already give us out to her. So cat and I thought you meant the by porn. Oh, I'm good. Yeah, I'm going there next also a new podcast. Then we would like, you guys to check out. It's not a, you know, an adult-themed one. But it is a little bit, it's a good entertainment, maybe the guys would like it a little bit more than women and that is socially awkward. Oh yes, we'll have one of the calls from there on our episode for Paul.

26:46 Yes, the Paul and and Adam be Patrick. Martin, Youtube upload Link in the description High School sweethearts, but shout out to them. Now, the content creator who's doin shit, right? And killing the game this week, who want to give all kind of roses to will be be creator of black porn matters. Please go and follow her on social media mainly on Twitter because we know Twitter's of little bit more, you know, accepting of grown folks table. Expand that. Oh, yeah. Instagram should know. I didn't, I didn't.

27:25 Yeah. Did you know they want me? They slap me on the wrist and scram pisses me off. Um, check out a bike or matters. Greater is a professor Gaia, the sex energy artists. And when you guys see her with her Talent, you won't know why? She is a professor. She is Professor the game, but shout out to her. I love her movement, I love that she is doing kind of what we are trying to do but this on a different scale she's doing it but much more of a professional you know, standpoint. Um but you know, normalizing Sex or people of color normalizing at actually improving the entertainment that we have.

28:13 Yeah, I do have that he's watching stuff and it's very funny whenever we watch dams or anything else, but he does a lot of damage until it's just a Amazon during covid. And most of it was buying clothes for me and novels, if I could really wear out, um, accor my butt. I'm going. But yes, I talked to her. Like I said, her movement is fantastic. She is on my, you know, my vision board. I am manifesting that she will be a guest co-host. Like I said, I don't want to tell her story but I think she is doing a fantastic thing and something like I said to normalize those that are in the adult industry whether that be a webcam model, whether that be an adult film actress, whether that be an, only fam, Creator, whatever may be, Let's normalize it because like I said, a healthy intimacy, a healthy self-esteem and a healthy, sexual relationship with whomever.

29:14 You would like that to be with is imperative or are our well-being and our lifestyles. It's part of who we are as part of we were sexual beings. So shout out to her, I really do appreciate, like I said, work that you're doing and so happy that we stumbled upon you and that was awful. X + XX website. That we stumbled partner, you can learn stuff from what you know dirty websites people like to call it. So yes guys we are going to go ahead and get the hell on out of here. We will see you guys after the New Year.

29:51 Please be safe. Have a good time. And you know what at 12:00 when you're kissing those lips. Just remember, especially course for females. She has another set that you should be kissing and taking care of as well. And Ladies, If you're not gagging and choking, you're not doing it right, Hey, what's up into it? It's fun, it's sloppy. It What Make some noise, it's pretty hot. So yes, we wish you guys a very, very happy new year. Happy New Year. That's a very blessed, rest of your 2021 be safe. Stay healthy is a task.

30:27 Oh yes. Oh God. Please take care of yourselves. Stay and listen to. So awesome, is the swingers. This is to manage the major Maven. Listen. Don't talk, just listen this to The Boondocks pocket. So many options of podcasts that you guys look. So yes. And I think that we will be starting our patreon and on our patreon, I believe that we're going to be telling those not safe for work. Even though this what this does, the podcast is not really, you know, we really since ourselves but I think we want to go ahead and start telling you a little bit of our stories in detail and that's going to be on our patreon.

31:07 So look out for that. Maybe that person will I'll be up or you and your friends could sit back a little eggnog in Tennessee, the white cloth or whatever it is that you drink will Tito's and enjoy enjoy. So we will be seeing you guys. Yep. Please like follow tell a friend to tell everybody hold still everybody. Even the mayor and we shall be seeing you guys very soon. Happy New Year's love and light. Thank you for joining us on soul mates and swingers. We hope that you enjoyed yourself just as much as we did.

31:44 Please don't miss our next playdate. It just wouldn't be the same without you. Until next time be passionate be in the moment. Be bold, be loving be the best version of you love and light. Hey this is Mondo. Thanks for joining us this week on so Mason swingers If you have any questions or any topics that you want us to cover, you can reach us at 12. I n n sa t--, I VA at gmail.com and also on Twitter at 12. I n n sa t--, i ba Make sure you like follow subscribe, comment, hit. All the buttons you can except for the delete button and we'll see you next week.

33:23 Look up the numbers and the numbers kind of grow and that's really getting into appreciating webcams and webcam models. So we first started you know I noticed that some of the the cam models were utilizing some really cool toys and this, of course, was long distance and it was interactive with their customers. It's not only that they inspire me to sign up as one thing I can never be the good Hustle. You know, I had to make an investment and do some research into what adult sex toys would be good for camping.

34:00 Be good for regular old fun. So what did I Stumble? I stumbled upon the brand Levin's and they are one of the few interactive, you know, sex toy lines that have something for me, only and be males. Really awesome. Let's just say Mondo really, really, really liked testing out one of the toys and I'm sure that you and your significant other will as well or if you decide to you know, be a become a cam model and you want to be able to provide that little extra umph, you know, to your to your customers and to your program and your your private room, then you definitely want to look into love.

34:41 It's really good price and then you can always become an affiliate just like your girl sativa. And that way you'll be able Earn some money. What you order and what you, refer to your customers and anybody else out there. So that's definitely want to check it out. Its 11th l-o-v-e NSE and we will go ahead and drop a code where you'll be able to get a nice little discount by utilizing our family of coat. So thank you so much to love, ins for providing the awesome products that you provide and also for providing In the sponsorship,

35:31 thank you for joining us on soul mates and swinger. We hope that you enjoyed yourself just as much as we did. Please don't miss our next playdate. It just wouldn't be the same without you. Until next time be passionate be in the moment, the bowl. Be loving you. The best version of you love and light. Hey, this is Mondo. Thanks for joining us this week on. So Mason swingers, if you have any questions or any topics that you want us to cover, you can reach us at 12. I n n sa t--, I be a at gmail.com and also, On Twitter at 12.

36:21 I n n sa t--, I d-- a make. Sure you like, follow, subscribe, comment it all the buttons you can except for the delete button and we'll see you next week.