Soulmates&Swingers #Podcast: Ladee Sativa with Doug Deep PT 4

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1:48 Look like, you know what? I'm going to say.

1:52 Oh, if he does then believe the Myriad paralegal but I was going to say, have you ever had a time where you've had somebody just hating on you and you're like I just did what I did. You're not tripping over the chick, you're not trying to holler at the chick later. Like you're just like Oh you mean Kind of sort of. Like, what you doing?

3:00 Oh, oh, that's a like a fairy tale.

3:30 Husbands are on board, like I don't know if they don't expect it. Like when husbands are on board at the beginning, but then you can just feel some kind of like, I never experienced that only because I run across the owner comes. A couple that seems fairly do I ask a question to feel him out to make sure they've had talked. Okay, I get it. I mean like yeah, fuck I asked like the talk because I hope his one better thing is one couple that I ran into David fairly new Whatever the case is and I Mai will have, you had to talk because when we get together and you know, everything gets there, Everything is Everything.

4:16 And after everything is done, I'm going to leave here and I'm gonna, you know, go back home or whatever the case may be, you guys have to be in the same space so you guys have to have a talk. You guys got to be solid. You guys going to have good communication before we even get started because we assist a commentator, you could No, it's true because you don't just go into it. That's like our last past, guests West, who was saying that, you know, his book. This is Grayson, he's the homosexual male.

4:51 So the relationship you were just talking about who you how you had with individuals with this the scenes that he has. And you know, the certain this relationships that he has that are within the BDS. More think lifestyle. He makes sure that he understands and the he has more of a relationship with them is more than just that like yeah. We're you know, what the purpose is, whether understanding is whether they've had the talk. There's more than one talk in life. That was the birds and beasts, it's definitely important to have that communication because it means we can safely to the end of the day.

5:29 Like I said, this is going to change a lot especially if this is your first experience, change the way. You see things a lot Change like a lot about about everything and transparent evolving. So like let's say things have changed, all right, so let me let's update each other, hold on. So yeah you haven't had that talk. Don't stay in communication with each other and don't stay tight then. It's bad. Yeah, and it doesn't, it's not a Band-Aid. You can't just be like that fix. If you know that there's a bigger you know fissure in your relationship, then don't try to go ahead and put a bandaid on it by thinking going lifestyle.

6:17 We've seen people He's not like antithesis. Okay, yay. So I didn't know.

6:42 I mean, nobody uses fissure on a regular basis.

6:50 We were talking about the other day, how we dumb down and we like made, like, for example I just learned that we it's Italy wasn't called Italy. It was called Italiano but they changed it. You know, the colonizers and it was changed to make it easier for those of us that spoke the queen's English and It's now English been, was it?

7:17 Then it's something like that. It's just certain parts that we them down. Did you know that cow? This means female. We're calling towns towns.

7:43 Lautenberg. We just dumped it down.

8:03 You good? I'm excited about the victim.

8:11 Yeah. Did you know that?

8:23 What's tag? Okay.

8:44 so, I thought Oh cool. Stag and Vixen. Once those two terms are go together, What was the?

9:15 So I want this point to say I'm in like a stag Vixens group on my credit, I think it's like a stack of pixels where it's like, oh we're husband and wife. Well, I know there's like, Okay. Okay, that's nice cool. They're like their mascot stag though. First.

10:07 I didn't have the right definition.

10:16 I don't really know what. I don't really know what it was until I ran across. Is we just waiting to play pool? Oh, hey, let's go back up in there.

10:36 Do you think he's like, oh, you can also call me a bitch too if you want. I said, well, all right, here's the deal. So wait, wait, wait.

10:54 My Lord. I didn't know stuff like that,

11:09 you know. They're like close, not like it proximity. Like right there. Yeah. Despite that I'm you right there. Like this is the he's right there. Right there.

12:02 Hey, what are we doing right now?

12:15 Is like this, you have to know beforehand and then you have to be able to Pivot. You have to be able to like, if it's a situation where you're given the word got to be able to Olay and not break, the the vibe and like there's a you like your denim because so you say something is because a lot of times a lot of times these are like room, you know? I mean where everybody's nervous proximity or like he really made my it might be whatever the case is. So if you break the energy or life flow or the vibe is going to be very well-known.

12:54 Yeah. Obviously, yes. So if I'm like, hey don't touch my dick. Like, it's sometimes good.

13:35 Okay, okay. Get the reach through.

14:00 He just grazed it. He's like him, dad.

15:02 He's with yourself, I don't even want to talk. I mean that wasn't the first time like he did some questionable shit. Like I said he would watch and mimic. I had people's like our third time with them that we left. We were like oh Would you were, like, slapping cheeks, and it was like, pow pow pow pow. Didn't all of a sudden. This should tell me. You said that me was watching, like, we were driving home. Like, so let's hit me or eight. Yeah. He was also used to like, put on VHS porn DHS which ship ship was going down between me and the wife, so was going down, he would literally turn on a porn for like 1979.

15:54 And like lay in the bed, spread eagle ball. Like the yeah. What is going on? You know what? Hey.

16:21 You know, he doesn't even know how to find the podcast. So, Who. We do my favorite word. Oh, that's a Rants, especially black people. I don't think they expect for us of one be there. Five years now made friends. Hmm. We call. We don't put some problems, you know, educated. But I do like the rain as much as other bullshit that we may have to deal with because people are feeling how things are going that's like going there and being out of pocket that's like going and be as out of pocket as I possibly can and I don't know.

17:16 I'll let you know what I like to fuck around and find out. That's, you know, and you can there I like to find out and you have to fuck around in order to find out if so I've definitely been The drunkest. The most out of pocket. The loudest the most part up there but I probably wasn't like college. And probably at the college, but we didn't tell me he was going to push the boundaries, like, for example handle. You can however like freaking a few ideas, that pool area, is my plane to plane, you know, those noodles everybody has yes, want to get a big black noodle, right?

18:05 And then like put like acrylic letter on the side. On the noodle looks like big black. Noodle on the noodle, right? Just a big. It may just take it to the pool. Use it. It's my noodle. All right. Cool. Right. Push the boundaries. That's it. I can't find, you know, those like, you know, those little like, yeah, you know. No, they say, well, we know they come in orange and pink, and yellow, and blue something also. And then there was this one, I found this thing exploding tank and you could sit in the floating and you can like, suck up water out of the pool, shoot it up, the nozzle.

19:00 So I was book, I was gonna take this to the pool and you start blasting all day. So,

19:40 Who. Gets it to queen or like this Crown, anybody who gets the most ass. It's So he gets it will just put it there. So our very first year hanging out with him, we were like you should get a ticket taker machine and like every time you have somebody come in to the yurt, have them take a number and then signed it before, they leave the year at the old, put it up on the wall and that's it. Every summer. Well, count it Wicked. We're at the fire pit for drama. Popped up, we're getting. Do you know two weeks later?

20:24 He had a tickle tickle machine. I respect we do I respect? Yes. So when we put it up quick and lady who is somebody who owns one of the Bungalows there who lives there, complain because she saw him and our friend walking back towards the Europe together. So, our phones going to be your he was going back across the island where we We were camped on the other side. This chick. I guess. She thought there was time. You want me to go ahead? Give it. I didn't miss, I wasn't in correcting. What I said that, my bad because she stopped and asked what the sign was for.

21:22 And there was like, that's weird. And next thing we know our friends being told that he can't have it up at his campsite because I was like I was so irritated that was like but you have to do with it. Like it didn't say dick sucked. If didn't say like anything that would allow her to be like, that was weird. Like the shit that's up at campsites are said to be out of pocket as I possibly can. We do But we think that's fair.

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